Dating can be exciting and thrilling, but it can also be frustrating and confusing. I am quoted in this article discussing a dating trend identified as “hesidating”, the act of dating with ambivalence and lack of commitment. As a couples therapist in California, I work often with people who feel anxious or avoidant in relationships, which blocks their ability to be fully vulnerable and feel connected. This creates a lack of safety and security in their relationships and often makes their partner feel rejected. Read this article to learn more about signs you are dating a “hesidater” and how to address it. Click to read the article. See if relationship counseling for individuals is right for you or contact us to get started.
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Author: Stephanie Saari
Stephanie Saari, LMFT is the founder and Clinical Director of Renewed Relationships Counseling Group, an Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) practice specializing in couples therapy, with offices in Danville, CA and Encino, CA, serving clients in person and online throughout California.